Wednesday, July 10, 2013
A San Pedro 8th Grader on a School Trip to New York and D.C. Gets An Ugly Dose of Reality When Taking a Photo of a Homeless Man
By Nick Zabatta
I pulled out my camera and snapped a quick photo, not really thinking it would be a big deal, and right after I heard a loud and angry "HEYYYY!" My heart pounded and I became terrified. I didn't even have to look up as I knew exactly who it was. This guy came running up to me and began speaking in a very vulgar and rude tone, hurling different curse words at me, but from what I heard, he pretty much said:
"Hey what the **** man! I said tips if you wanna' take a picture! You're lucky I don't **** slap you right now!"
I panicked and responded, "Ok, I-I'll delete it."
"Naw, that's not the point man," he shouted continuing his barrage of threats with violent cuss words.
I didn't know yet about a similar situation back home in Hollywood where a 23-year-old woman was killed for taking such a photo.
I again told the cussing man I would delete it, and I fumbled with my camera trying to find the delete despite my nonstop trembling fingers, actually nonstop trembling body. My cousin said: "Let's leave quick," and we walked fast and away from him. He kept shouting but I was too scared to hear him. I had never been threatened that way in my life. Nothing happened, which I am grateful for, because I didn't know what this man was capable of or what he had under his marijuana costume, as in weapons, knives or guns. For the next ten minutes, my cousin and I reflected on what could have happened and were still in a shock.
Later that night, we ended up laughing about it.
Ok, maybe it wasn't the best idea to take a picture of a marijuana smoking homeless man, but I do believe that nowadays people will do anything for money, even if it means mugging two 14-year-olds. I do understand that this could possibly be invasion of privacy, but actually he was indeed asking people to take pictures of him publicly.
I agree I'm a bit naive. I had just culminated from the 8th grade earlier in the month, and as my graduation present my parents allowed me to go on the annual Washington D.C. Trip that takes place in the 8th grade Dodson Magnet Program. We went to D.C., Gettysburg, Philadelphia, and the Big Apple, New York. The trip was great and I'm glad I had the experience to see the east coast, especially New York. Times Square was just electrifying at night time, it literally took your breath away just looking up at all the lights, stores, and skyscrapers.
The only thing I didn't like about New York was that it's all about money. Salesmen and women are always trying to bargain and cheat you out of it. The worst, though, is all the panhandlers asking for change. They parade around the sidewalks, smelly, rudely, and just overall arrogantly. Now, I always try to go by that saying, don't judge a book by its cover, and I usually don't judge people because of an unfortunate encounter with one person. But those threats made me scared and angry.
I also didn't know such an encounter could turn deadly.
After I arrived back into California and told my family all about the trip, showed all the pictures, and adjusted back to the West Coast, my mom showed me the article about a young woman who was killed in the Hollywood incident in June that started out very similar to mine.
Christina Calderon of Lynwood was near the intersection of Hollywood Boulevard and Highland Avenue where three men were panhandling. She took pictures of the homeless men who were holding signs with obscenities and vulgar messages on it, asking for money for a picture. The woman did not pay money and just took a picture. She was attacked and fatally stabbed. As I read what happened, I realized how similar our situations were. Except, I was not physically attacked. It's sad to say that I feel "lucky" to not have been hurt or killed over a photo.
This was indeed a lesson learned. I suggest to everybody that if you see a homeless person holding a sign or asking for money to take a picture, that you walk right past them. A quick little picture could lead to an argument, a confrontation, or unfortunately even death.
That is not worth any picture.
Sunday, July 07, 2013
Test Scores. Test Scores and More Test Scores. How do students feel about them?
Parents talk about them. School administrators talk about them. Teachers talk about them. But where do students stand on taking tests for the state on a yearly basis where their intelligence, memory and aptitude are used to measure their worth and value in our school systems. I have asked several students to write how they feel about testing.
Periodically, their pieces will appear on theunderdogforkids blog so we can hear what they truly feel. Here is a piece by student Maryam Yazdi, 13.
Testing through our Eyes
By Maryam Yazdi, 13
The blood pounded in my ears as I entered the cold, bland classroom. I felt nervous and also relieved. I had made it to class on time. Yesterday, my teacher had warned the class that we’d have to arrive at school on time. If you didn’t, you’d get locked out and fail the CST’s. If you were caught talking, you’d get your test taken away. If you got caught standing without permission, you’d get a strike.
My usually calm teacher, Ms. Smith’s, voice quavered as she read off a piece of paper, her eyes darting nervously around the small room. “Please sit in your assigned seats.” She read. “When you sit down, put up the separators laying on your desks, then await further instruction.”
We all sleepily shuffled over to our assigned seats, and there was a scraping of chair legs and rustling of papers as we all sat down and set up the separators. “On your desks, you will each find a no.2 pencil, a test booklet, an answer sheet, and a blank piece of paper.” Ms. Smith continued, “If you don’t have one or more of these items, please raise your hand.” As she glanced around, only two people raised their hands. Ms. Smith scurried over to help them, while the rest of us took the extra time to take a few relaxing breaths.
When she was finished helping the two students, Ms. Smith announced, “You may now open your test booklets and begin!” There was more shuffling of paper, and a sound of pencils scratching on paper as everyone started. As the hours ticked by, I worried more and more. Was that the right answer? Had I skipped one? Would I finish the test on time?
Pretty soon, I was counting down the questions. Eight more. Five more. Three more. Two. One. Then, I stopped. I couldn’t remember the answer to the question. I only had a minute left of school, a minute to think of the answer. I finally thought of the answer, and the bell rang the second after. There was a resounding exhale all over the school.
Before I knew it, I was outside and on my way home. I wasn’t relieved to be finished. I wouldn’t be relieved until I got my test scores. And… They better be good. I am still waiting for them in the mail… I shouldn’t be worried. We learned all the material. I am a good student. But, during the test, I felt so freaked out that it was hard to focus
It left me wondering if I was a good student anymore.
Monday, July 01, 2013
|Girls at the Boys and Girls Club surround Caroline Skubik eager to learn how to sew.|
After Two Years of Planning, 17-Year-Old Opts to Run a Summer Sewing Camp at the Boys and Girls Club Teaching Lessons of a Dying Art One Stitch at a Time
By Diana L. Chapman
"Girls, girls, girls," says Caroline Skubik, as she plunged through a wave of chattering, bouncy middle school girls excitedly preparing for their grand finale -- a fashion show. Their eyes sprinkled and sparkled with glittering eye shadow.
"You guys, keep control of yourself and be on point," she adds, keeping her young and bubbling mob in check even though she is just a few years older. "Don't ruin it for the next person."
|Maryam Yadzi, 13 holds up two skirts she made.|
In itself, it's a stunt most adults couldn't pull off with squirmy pre-teens, but for Caroline, it was as though she was a master, fitting neatly into the club's puzzle of giving its youth more talent, self confidence and pride to their life skill's tool kit.
There were no already done patterns here, Caroline explains. The 30 girls learned to design their own dresses and skirts but first started out with a simple bag, which is where the whole gig started three weeks back when the young leader began to stitch and sew the youth's attitudes for the better.
From her kids, Caroline is getting more than an A+ for her efforts.
"She was there for me. I kind of felt I was a bad person. But I feel now just happy with sewing class. It can changes lives," explains a bright-eyed Destiny Marquez, 11, whose hazel-colored hair was in ringlets for the show. "My life was already better the first day she came.
"She opened me up."
Designing and making patterns was no easy task, which is why some of the 10- 13 year old girls dropped out when they got "frustrated" no matter how she tried to keep them. "It's one thing making the pattern and another to make it fit you." But far more girls -- awestruck by Caroline's work -- stayed to learn all about the young woman's passion for sewing, self-esteem and fashion -- a combination of treasures she wanted to share.
The teen has been fascinated with fashion since she was young and began to sew about age 12, said the bright and confident blond who seems beyond her years.
Her mother started her off sewing, but the teenager blossomed working hard to build her own concepts in an art that has fallen off the charts for many working American women. The threads of the camp came together, she said, starting two years ago when she decided she wanted to receive a Gold Award from the Girl Scouts. She rolled her passions neatly into a package for a sewing summer camp as her community service project. She researched legalities and safety concerns, and then looked for donations.
The big fabric chains turned her down. She also had trouble finding a location that would allow her to teach sewing camp for free. And she wanted particularly to target middle school girls "because it's such a delicate age." But finding those girls would be hard.
When things seemed impossible, suddenly crates of material and bolts of colorful fabrics began to appear at her house. Then ten sewing machines arrived, loaned by family and friends. They also donated about $1,500, many in fabric store gift cards, so she could purchase the numerous and necessary supplies, such as needles and thread.
"I had more yards than I could count and it poured into our living room," Caroline said. "This was all free," she added, pointing to the many boxes at the club stuffed with materials. "This was all from my friends and family. "
Then, she learned the club had middle school girls and she wouldn't have to charge them a dime.
In the beginning, the camp started with strict rules. The teen insisted on:
--No open shoes to avoid needles going through some one's foot
--Eyes must be kept on the sewing machines at all times when working and "never look up."
--Do not engage anyone in conversation who is on a machine or vice versa to prevent accidents.
From there, her first lesson was simple: "Here is a needle. Here is the eye of the needle. You put thread through the eye," Caroline explained with a precision as the girls wandered about before the show putting on make-up. Caroline crowed to her crew: "We're designers!" The girls giggled.
Seconds later, they were crossing the runway.
Some of the girl's pieces as they twisted and turned weren't perfect: a skirt had no hem, a zipper was misaligned, a belt around a waist was crooked -- but Caroline and the girls didn't care about any of that. What was incredible, the leader said, is the kid's confidence soared when they learned to make their own clothes giving them a sense of freedom and passion just waiting to spark.
The perfection can come later.
The girls learned about textures, colors and shapes and how to thread a machine -- and they want to learn more.
"I made a shirt. I made a dress. I made some shorts and I made a bag," said Keyara Andrews, 12. "It was pretty challenging, but then it got easier. Caroline has been a very good role model. She kept showing us what was wrong without screaming at us."
By the end, her students had made 25 to 30 bags, 23 skirts and 20 dresses. Three girls that were more advanced also made shorts.
Of course there had to be an accident. Talita Shields, 12, said she "wasn't paying attention" using the sewing machine and sewed through her finger. After it happened, Caroline was on it cleaning the cut out with hydrogen peroxide and "she was so comforting."
"I like how Caroline helps us," Talita said. "She treats us like daughters. Sometimes I'm kind of pushy and rude, and she'd have me wait, calm down and
hold a second."
To parent Rene Yadzi, whose 13-year-old Maryam attended, Caroline is practically a miracle, who deserves huge plaudits for her success.
"Caroline was amazing," Rene said. "She did a job that we frequently hire experienced, even college educated teachers to do... She really inspired these kids to tackle an incredibly hard project and stick to it when the difficulties seemed insurmountable. She was level headed and mature, always. She provided a structure and a plan that grounded the efforts.
" In the absence of these factors, it would have fallen apart. Instead, it was an amazing success that built self esteem and showed these kids that they have the power to achieve anything they want."
Leomar Ignacio, director of the club's middle school center, said she was an amazing add who came with practicality, nurturing and common sense.
"Caroline's sewing camp brought back the essential task of sewing for our members," he said. "The members aren't expose to the basic programs anymore due to the budget schools and community programs. But with Caroline's determination to help our club, our movement and our members with teaching sewing, it helped our kids find another way to feel better about themselves and what they can achieve."
Routinely, Cathy Skubik, the teen's mom and a 4th grade teacher at Park Western Elementary, came to help, adding that the craziness of it all just dazed her. Her daughter, however, didn't bat an eye. Cathy said she couldn't help but be impressed.
"She listened to them. She knew them. She pushed them...It was just a very natural way of teaching. They were really great kids and were really open to her and her ideas. It's such a perfect blend of her passion for sewing and her passion in believing in yourself."
But there was one thing Caroline didn't anticipate. She didn't understand "how connected I was to the girls" and toward the end began to feel sad.
"I feel appreciated by them," she said. "They are so sweet. I don't think it's an option for me not to come back."