A Bit of Snazziness and a Lot of Pep
Drives One Woman, a Retired Mattel Executive and Corporate Attorney, To Power Up Kids To Take
Charge of Their Lives and Oh, Yeah: Have Fun While Doing It
By Diana L. Chapman
Meeting Judy Willis sometimes seems
like watching the road runner fly by. She's quick. She's witty. She's driven
in race cars at 180 mph. Became close friends with Barbie, one of the most
popular dolls in the entire world, and Ken, not so much. And she knows
negotiating tactics that might make other attorneys blanch.
Willis, 63, a slender woman with one word describing her best -- peppy --once traveled the world on a mission to negotiate licensing agreements for Mattel, Inc. as its Senior Vice President, Business Affairs. She even flew to Germany to meet with BMW, VW, Porsche, Audi and Mercedes, and to Italy to meet with Ferrari and Lamborghini for the rights to be in the Hot Wheel line.
Even though she's hopped over to New Zealand, popped over to Russia and landed in Turkey where she was surrounded by armed guards and dogs at the airport to cut million dollar deals, Willis decided even though the "job was really fun" it was time to retire early from her sensational career life at the age of 60.
Why? She wanted to help kids.
She was never able to get pregnant when she was married, now single. Sad? Are you kidding? Ms. Bubbly makes things work. At first, she thought of becoming a foster mother, but a friend believed that would limit her ability to help many children. Instead, she volunteers at a shelter for abused mothers and their children, aids students at San Pedro High to guide them with their career choices and volunteers at Toberman Neighborhood Center working with clients on job skills and serving on its Development Committee. The Center provides gang prevention, family services and educational programs for youth.
"She's just awesome," said
Toberman Board Member Mitch Harmatz. "She's high energy, she gives back to the
community. She's compassionate and caring. And she's fearless. She will call donors
who have not mailed in their checks" and remind them.
The truth is, having missed out on
having her own kids, Willis has discovered just how much she loves and
enjoys being around children of all ages.
"I definitely get way more than I give," said Willis, who sports a highlighted bob and seems to grip life with smiles and exuberance. "I love being around the kids. I always wanted a lot of kids of my own, which never happened. At the shelter, they call me 'the fun lady'. Sometimes the kids scream when I get there. It doesn't get much better than that. I know that I'm very good with kids and I'm lucky to have these great volunteer
opportunities."
I first heard of Judy Willis from San Pedro High student Nancy Hinjos, now studying at George Town University, who raved about the attorney's ability to get students enthusiastic about studying and life.
Willis volunteers at the high school
each Friday.
"It's difficult for me to keep it
brief when talking about Judy," Hinjos emailed me from Washington, D.C. "I not only completely
respected her because she was a professional but
also because she was donating her time to help San Pedro High students. She was
very altruistic. Her contributions have personally affected me as I
continue my education. Her story has stayed with me and is an inspiration. I still
consider her to be a strong mentor and a friend."
I didn't hear about Willis again until
my son, Ryan, came home from school and said he'd been having
thought-provoking discussions with the attorney."I'm thinking about
getting a law degree," Ryan said.
Coming from East Hartford Connecticut,
a blue collar town, Willis grew up without a lot of money with three
sisters and two brothers. It was a given that despite having little money, they
were expected to go college and they all did.
Willis started out at Central
Connecticut State University and became a social worker for six years, but with
so much drive (and really enthusiastic overdrive) she decided to get a law
degree and went nights to the University of Connecticut's law school. She
transferred second year and graduated with a law degree from Boston College.
"Law school isn't hard,"
Willis said of her survival dueling a job and law school at the same time. "It's
just a tremendous amount of work, a lot of reading and the bar is very
stressful."
As soon as she graduated, work flew
into her lap. H.P. Hood, the largest dairy in New England, hired her
immediately in 1979. She was there for four years before Parker Brothers, a
Massachusetts game company and maker of Monopoly,Risk, Sorry, etc., swept her
up for five. Then, she landed the job as a corporate attorney for Mattel in
El Segundo and loved every minute of it. So did her family with whom she
shared her bonuses every year.
Working for Mattel for 20 years, left
her with a nice collection of Barbie dolls that she is surrounded
with at her Palos Verdes Peninsula home many designed by famous creator Bob
Mackie.
Her life with the largest toy company
in the world led to many glamorous moments with stardom -- meeting with
the likes of Jerry Seinfeld, Tom Hanks, Jamie Lee Curtis, Cindy Crawford --
but even more exciting adventures driving with NASCAR's Kyle Petty at
180 mph at the Charlotte Motor Speedway in North Carolina.
Mattel was Petty's sponsor. Willis
also was allowed to go solo, but was so scared she could only
hit the gas pedal up to 110 mph and who could blame her? She also got a test drive in the Enzo Ferrari
at Ferrari's test track in Italy, but she
wasn't the driver.
Today her life is mostly channeled into what she can do for children.
Today her life is mostly channeled into what she can do for children.
Valerie Armstrong, who runs the
school's College and Career Counseling Center, said she can't thank Willis
enough for all her efforts.
"Judy Willis is so wonderful!"
Armstrong emailed. "She truly enjoys working with our students. She assists with
SAT registration, resume writing, scholarship searches, and mock job
interviews. She also is a wonderful advisor to the students in Work
Experience class. These students receive credit for working and they meet with
me and Judy once a week. She researches articles on job trends and
shares valuable career information with them."
Willis seals her lips when it comes to
her work at a domestic violence shelter, which she can't identify
because of confidentiality and the law. She won't tell the children's stories
except for the nebulous ones, such as this.
When a 6-year-old realized she had
once worked with toys, he asked her to bring him something collectible. She
promised to bring him a Hot Wheels car which she had gotten at a
fundraiser. The family later discovered
that this particular little car was selling for
over $600 on eBay.
The shelter's children, have become
her teachers.
"I love the kids," she said.
"Being at the shelter, I see how unique they are. I learned so much from them. They
are so resilient."
She also likes to teach older students
not to hang onto old mistakes, to move forward in life and have no regrets.
That's how she lives because "you never know how long you are going to
be here." Enjoy it, she added.
On a Friday afternoon, Willis was once
again at San Pedro High helping student senior Karla Sanchez, 18, with
deferred action paper work for immigrants"and she's been telling
me about her job as lawyer," Sanchez said.
"That's getting me excited,"
said an enthused Sanchez, who added that she was so confused by the paperwork she
couldn't have completed it without Willis. "She's been a role model.
It makes me see that there is opportunity out there. It actually makes me feel like there are
people who do care."